Like most problems, what we often dont realize is, we bring horriblefirst dates upon ourselves by coming up with some of the WORST conversation topics of all time.
Im a firm believer that there is no such thing as a boring person if you manage to ask them the right questions.
Buthow is someonenotsupposed to be boring when you bring up the weather?! Like, COME ON.
Here are eight boring conversation topics that you should definitely avoid on a first date:
1. The weather.
Its so cold.
YES, OBVIOUSLY, ITS SO COLD. WE ARE BOTH STANDING IN THE SAME CLIMATE. Thank you for stating the obvious.
There is also air in this room, and get this were both breathing it! Any other objective facts youd like to state?
Think this through for a second: Howis anyone actually supposed to respond to that, other than with Haha, yeah, or Really? Im not that cold.
Is that really ALL you can bring to the table? Come on, be better.
2.How you slept last night and how tired you are now.
You feeling a little tired tonight? KEEP IT TO YOURSELF.
Still not convinced that this isnt one of the worst conversation topics of all time? Let me paint you a picture of how this convo is inevitably going to go:
Oh man, Im so tired.
Haha, am I that boring?
*you immediately feel so awkward* No! No! I just didnt sleep well last night.
Oh no! Why not?
I dont know. I just couldnt really fall asleep.
Thats the worst.
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